I have written men for a while and when I mentioned about being a real relationship and meeting, they fade away. The most recent on I decided I would go for about a week of writing and he was getting very interested and I then I asked him what and when he thought meeting would be possible. He said next week and asked for my phone number to call me. I haven't heaard from him since. This seems to be a pattern. They are also foreign born and younger so not exactly sure what is going on or if they actually live in the US even though they say the do. I am going to meet another foreign born man next weekend and I have to drive close to an hour to meet him part way so this is a little different scenario as he is the one pushing to meet for coffee. Your input would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.