I continue to LOVE reading these tips, Cherry, because they are so specifically addressed by you in such a short and digestable sound bite. THANK you for that.!! I have never beenin a true LTR with a man..it's all been STR, and mostly by my desire though there have been a coupla heartbreakers too. I'm reading all your tips and learning so much about how to handle different situations in a mature way that meets both party's needs. Again, a multitude of THANKS and BLESSINGS on your gifts to the world of the clueless beings who desire true relationships that can actually work. Growing up, I heard so much arguing and ws so frightened in my environment that I'm sure that's why I AM the ONE who has been commitment-shy. Now, BECAUSE of YOU, I am learning what I need to even THINK about moving forward.