No he hasn't asked me to visit him or anything like that but we both have so much going on that I wouldn't have time to fly around the world to visit him. I fully agree with going with the flow and keeping in touch, i can do that. When he left a year and a half ago we were strictly just friends and hadn't talked about being anything more because we never brought it up, so i feel like your right that he wouldn't have moved there if he wanted to start something with me, especially since he doesn't know when he is moving back. But we never got a chance to really start something in the first place, even though the attraction and everything was there, it might be silly to even attempt to start something being so far away from each other in the first place. But I understand a little better now, thank you!