Your mother had a “chance” meeting with your father at least thats what you said, so if thats the case your mother didnt plot and scheme to get him, she simply made herself available and that, in no way makes them “soulmates”. If in the event she did scheme and plot to get your father the karma boogy man did get her because they separted and not only did they separate, he eventually went out and got a second family…Lawwwd Poopa, this is too much for me! Can you say All My Children!?! Why didnt your mother go out there and do the same thing that your father did to her? Why did she just sit and wait for him to come back? You see your mom remebered what she did the other woman and knew that that was good ole Karma in action. Sweetie, make up your mind you stay contradicting yourself on so many levels.