As always, thank you, Cherry. You stimulate my critical thinking.
I have met a man who is both incredibly sexy and brilliant. He has no money and may never have any, and I'm thinking about how this would work out for me. There just isn't parity right now.
I like what you said about "let your body choose." I am choosing to feng shui my body and my house and my life so that I will have no baggage to bring into this relationship or any other that may arise. And clearing out the past is fun!